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中英文小故事：严于律己与宽以待人 有一位公关名家谈到建立良好人际关系时，举了一个例子。他说，无论多么漂亮的小姐，如果美容师以500倍的放大镜看她美丽的脸庞，看到的一定是坑坑洼洼、凹凸不平的脸，使人大失所望。而当我们拿望远镜看青山时，映入眼帘的尽是如画的风景、迷人的山色，令人心旷神怡。 这说明，如果你永远拿着放大镜看别人，必定使对方原形毕露，一无是处，也使自己无法信任他人，交不到朋友。相反，如果拿着望远镜则始终能欣赏到别人美好的一面。 同时这也告诉我们，如果放大镜的焦点对准的是自己，而不是别人，如果能虚心请教他人，这样放大镜和望远镜便能同时发挥最大的效用。 严于律己与宽以待人正是放大镜与望远镜的最好诠释。 Be Strict with Ourselves and Lenient Towards Others There was a famous public relations master who cited an example when he talked about building good interpersonal relationships. He said that no matter how beautiful a young lady was, but if the beautician took a magnifier of 500 times to see her pretty face, what he saw must be a face full of bumps and hollows. It was a very disappointing result. But when we look at the green hills with a telescope, what come into view is all picturesque scenery and charming mountains, and these make us refreshing • This suggests that if you always look at others with a magnifier，this will definitely betray them and make them without a single virtue. This can also make you not trust others and have no friends. On the contrary, if using a telescope, we will always be able to enjoy the beauty of others. In the meantime, it tells us that if we focus the magnifier on ourselves but not on others, if we can consult others with an open mind, in this way, magnifier and telescope can simultaneously" display the biggest effectiveness0. Be strict with ourselves and lenient towards others—it is the best interpretation for magnifier and telescope. cite 引用 interpersonal 人际的 beautician 美容师 bump 肿块；隆起物 hollow 窟窿；洞 picturesque 图画般的；生动的 refreshing 提神的；使人耳目一新的 magnifier 放大镜；放大器 simultaneously 同时地 effectiveness 效力；作用 lenient 宽大的;仁慈的 interpretation 解释 |
