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Understand what emotional intelligence is -- and make a point to cultivate it. To have emotional intelligence means to be "confident, good at working towards your goals, adaptable and flexible. You recover quickly from stress and you're resilient," psychologist Daniel Goleman previously told HuffPost. It's made up of five parts: social skills, empathy, motivation, self-awareness and self-regulation. And fortunately, these are all traits you can cultivate. Be curious about things beyond yourself. Know what you're good at and where you can stand to improve. Try to improve your ability to pay attention. 了解并培养情商的重要 心理学家丹尼尔.戈尔曼曾对赫芬顿邮报如此定义情商：情商是个体所表现出的自信，能够努力实现自己的目标，并有较强的适应能力和灵活性；你弹性大，能够很快从压力中恢复。情商包含了5个部分，即社会能力、同情心、能动性、自我意识和自控能力。可喜的是，这5项能力都是可以通过后天培养的。你需要时刻对外界事物保持好奇心，充分了解自己的优势和弱势，并清楚哪些是可以改进的，此外，还需不断提升注意力。 |
