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一个男孩和一个女孩在争吵。“你错了，”男孩说。“不，我是对的。你错了。”女孩说。 老师向他们展示了一个又大又圆的物体。他问：“它是什么颜色的？”“黑的。”男孩回答。“不,是白色的。”女孩的回答让男孩大吃一惊。老师让他们交换位置。猜猜男孩看到了什么？物体变成了白色的。而女孩则发现物体是黑色的。原来这是一个两边颜色不同的物体。 从故事中你能学到什么？你必须站在别人的立场上看问题：假设你和你的朋友意见不一致,这时你应该从他的视角去看问题。而他则应从你的视角去看。 这样你们就能理解对方了。 Standing in Other People’s Shoes A boy was arguing with a girl.“You are wrong, said the boy. No, I m right. You are wrong，said the girl. Their teacher showed them a big round object. He asked them，What color is it?” “Black，，，the boy answered. “No，it is white.”The girl’s answer surprised the boy a lot. The teacher then asked them to change their places. Guess what the boy saw? The object was white now! And the girl found the object was black! It was an object with two colored sides. What can you learn from the story? You must stand in other people s shoes. Suppose you and your friend disagree with each other,you should view the thing through his eyes. And he should view it through your eyes. Then you two can understand each other. |
