The Weekend-Work No 对周末加班说不 Your boss asks you to work on Saturday, but your cousin is getting married. 上司让你周六加班,但是你的表亲这周结婚。 "I would love to work on that with you, but I have a big family event. What if I stayed late Friday night?" Apologizing or going into an absurd amount of detail seems weak. Be calm and make eye contact and she'll respect what you're saying. Then follow up with an alternative solution if you can, so everyone wins.” 我很想跟着你加班,但是我这周家里有件大事。不如我周五加个晚班怎样?“道歉或者解释一大堆荒唐的细枝末节显得太无力。冷静地采用眼神交流,她会尊重你的决定。接着,如果可以的话,提出一个变通的方案,这样就能双赢了。 |