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曾有一个父亲这样说到：“曾经我有很多乐子，但现在他们是我唯一的乐子，其它的就别提了。”确实，要孩子就意味着更多的责任，以及更少的单独空间和婚姻生活；也意味着把你有限的生命和有限的收入押在了唯一的乐子上。你可以用这些时间找到很多满足，找到生命的其它意义。所有，还是先看看自己目前的状况再做决定。 One father had this to say about children: "They're a huge source of joy, but they turn every other source of joy to shit." In fact, having children correlates with both an increased sense of purpose in life and a long-lasting decrease in individual and marital happiness. Having kids means spending a lot of your short life and limited income on one source of joy. You have only so much time and money and there are lots of ways to find satisfaction, pleasure, and meaning in this life. Consider all your options. |
