向宠物狗狗们学习社交吧（中英对照）

1. Fearlessly Work a Room  大胆出动

   Dogs are strangers to one another, but they instantly meet and greet those around them. They know how to fearlessly work a room. Try to be open and free-spirited like a golden retriever. Just walk up, say hi, and introduce yourself to anyone who will listen. You don't have to lick their faces.

狗狗们互相都是陌生人，但它们在见面时会主动地去打招呼。他们知道该如何大胆出动。试着像一只黄金猎犬一样自由奔放吧。走上前，说嗨，向每个人做自我介绍，你用不着舔他们的脸。

2. Be Friendly and Playful  让自己友好而有趣。

Dogs, after a few initial sniffs, begin to play together, chasing one another, and rolling over in the dirt. Don't hang back waiting for other people to make the first move. Once you sense there is some common ground and you're not likely to get your head bitten off, engage. Invite them for golf or a ball game. Get in some social activity.

狗狗们在相互闻了几下后就会开始一起玩、追逐打闹、在泥地里打滚。不要干等着别人迈出第一步。一旦你发现你和其他人有共同点，而你又不好意思开口的时候，要逼自己这么做。邀请对方一起打一场高尔夫或是打个球，做一些社交活动。

3. Work That Body  巧用肢体

Dogs are excellent at using body language to convey a point. Body language is as much about seeing what's going on with others as it is about projecting yourself. That's what makes dogs so good at getting our attention and avoiding conflict. We rely so often on our words to communicate with others, but make sure to give thought to your body movements, your eye contact, your appearance and your vibe.

狗狗很善于使用肢体语言来传递信息。肢体语言对于了解对方的想法和表达自己的想法都是非常重要的。这也是为什么狗狗们如此善于吸引我们的注意和避免冲突。我们太过依赖和别人的语言交流，但也应该多考虑一下肢体活动、眼神交流、仪容仪表和整个氛围。

4. Make 'em Laugh  逗别人笑

Dogs win us over with humor because they make us laugh at the things they do, the expressions they display and the way their tongues hang out. No need to take yourself so seriously. Use humor to your advantage.

狗狗用幽默征服了我们，因为它们的行为、表现和声音总是让我们忍俊不禁。不要太过严肃，让幽默成为你的优势。

5. Share a Meal  分享大餐

Dogs bond with people over food. They will be your best friend if you engage them with a treat. You can't necessarily snack your way into friendships, but buying someone a drink or bonding over a meal is a great way to develop a relationship.

狗狗和人类的关系由食物所维系。如果你能给它们好吃的，它们就会成为你的好朋友。你不能指望吃的能为你带来友谊，但经常给别人买点饮料或是请他们吃顿饭是发展关系的一个绝佳方式。

6. Be Expressive  要善于表现

Dogs can be verbally expressive, even without words. They'll bark, whimper, growl and yawn. They don't hide anything--they make their feelings and needs known. Try the same thing. Let others know exactly how you feel and you may just get some useful and honest feedback.

狗狗虽然不会说话，但它们的语言还是非常具有表现力。它们会叫、呜咽、咆哮和打哈欠。它们不会掩饰任何事——狗狗会把它们的感受和需求都表现出来。你可以试着做同样的事。让别人知道你现在是什么感觉，这样你或许能得到一些诚恳有用的回复。

7. Show Some Enthusiasm  表现出激情

Dogs expend a lot of energy in running and jumping all over the place. They are very active and lively. Enthusiastically share your passion for life and people when communicating. Your joyfulness may actually become infectious.

狗狗们总是到处跑来跑去跳来跳去，显得充满了能量。它们非常积极活泼。在交流时你应该热情地与别人分享你对生活的激情。你的这种喜悦是会传染的。